Opening Ceremony of the Olympics

I know that the Olympics have come and gone, Michael Phelps (who might as well have been his own country) has returned home with his medals and thousands of people are camping out for tickets to see 150 Olympians united together on Oprah's infamous stage, however I just ran across more amazing photos of the Opening Ceremony and would like to share.

La Boca

Yesterday was absolutely beautiful, so we decided to be tourists in a La Boca, home of the Boca Juniors and birthplace of the Tango. Steve commented no less than a dozen times that he should not have worn shorts because they scream, "TOURIST" and many tourists are known to leave the area without the belongings that they brought with them. The area is quite shady, but definitely a must-see tourist trap during daylight hours.

I laugh every time that I see this quote of my friend's blog:

"Happiness is having a large, loving, caring, close-knit family in another city." George Burns

Empty Carts

All too often, I spend hours looking through websites, making flat-rate shipping really worth it - trying to get the most for my money. I have planned wardrobes for the kids for a season and created lists of the things that I have to buy online. As I think that I have mentioned before, most of the clothing here for children is Walmart quality for Janie and Jack prices. It is also impossible to find anything for someone who is 6'5" tall. It is for this reason that, as much as I do not like shopping online, I really take advantage of our APO box.

Back to the point at hand... I spend all too much time filling online shopping carts, just to simply get up and walk away without actually completing the purchase. I often walk away with the intent of returning when I have a few extra minutes to browse through the clearance items, only to find that when I return, they are sold out of what I originally had in my bag.

So I wonder, is this saving us money, or actually costing us more? Or just cost me way too much time and frustration?

Baby Barlow

is 2270 +/- 227 grams today according to my ultrasound. Nearly 5 pounds even...

She (yep, no doubt after the third confirmation) has hair, overly chubby cheeks, and a set of lips that I have no idea who she inherited from.

To read or not to read

Do I watch the Olympics that are soon to end, or read my new Stephanie Meyer arrival from amazon.com?

You might suggest that I do both except that our lighting is so bad in the family room at night, that I just can read in here.

Oh, what a dilemma.

A Few Random Photos

This is one of my favorites...



Abe came home with this parting gift from one of his many birthday parties. It provided 15 minutes of laughter!



The kids love our "inside" scooter. We inherited it from a friend who recently moved.


Now that we are settled in our new house, I think that the kids favorite room in the house is our master bath and jet tub. We pour in just a few bubbles, turn on the jets and suddenly we have meringue.

Youth Dance Festival

Our youth participated in the Stake Dance Festival. Each ward represented a different country and we were assigned Italy. We made the skirts for the girls, put together the hisotry of the church in Italy, provided samples of Italian food, painted a backdrop of Venice and had a great time. It was debated up until the week before as to whether or not we would participate due to the lack of interest (quite literally, most of the youth stopped attending mutual), but we managed to reluctantly convince four to dance and one more to help logistically. They really did pull it off... I think that we were all a little surprised how well it actually turned out.

La Granja Chocolatada

Yes, this translates to "The Chocolate Milk Farm", but in fact it is a petting zoo and a Steakhouse for adults. We spent the afternoon with about 20 other Embassy families. We all had a great time.

Abe bungee jumped on a trampoline and managed a few flips...


and Peyton rode a pony.


Abe milked a cow, while Peyton ran away in sheer terror of the mooing cow.


Abe couldn't get enough of the zip line. It was easy to hold onto, but actually ran a good distance. It was a hit with all ofthe kids.


As we waited for Abe's last turn on zipline, Peyton ran around the side of the barn to watch and landed in a stream of mud, and a pile of manure which she hit at about her knee as she fell. After calming her down and convincing her that she would live, as it was just a little dirt, I couldn't help but take a picture. If you look closely, you can tell where the mud ends and the manure begins. It was the perfect end to a perfectly dirty afternoon.


If only we didn't have a Dance Festival in an hour...

Explorotorio

We finally made it to the highly anticipated Science Exploratorium. I have wanted to take Abe for some time, but they are only open to the public for 3 hours on Sunday afternoons. We even tried to go once with much confusion over the published winter break dates. Our school happens to be on a slightly different schedule than other Argentines schools. During the Winter Break (July 28-Aug 11), they opened daily.

Although the exhibits and building were not as impressive as you might have expected from a museum in the States, the staff really interacted with the kids to teach them concepts.


This was Abe's favorite exhibit. There had to be enough water in the upper tank to create pressure to pump it into the tank below, which spun a wheel creating energy to turn on the lights located on the side.


This is Abe's good friend who was braved the static machine. Abe lost interest after he touched it and was shocked. We're not sure that Abe even has enough hair. :)


The kids also loved the bubble maker. I mean, how often is it that you can stand inside of a huge bubble?

Blanca Nieve and Los Siete Enanitos

As a Stake Activity, each Ward Primary performed a Disney skit. Our ward was assigned Snow White and the Seven Dwarfs. Lidia and I made the hats and beards for the dwarfs. Abe marched around to "Hi Ho, Hi Ho" and looked adorable. It was the highlight of the performance and everyone had a good chuckle. One onlooker from another ward even commented that I should have been cast, as my belly would have fit right in.

Dia de la Bandera

For those who believe that the US is the most nationalistic country in the world, you should definitely visit Argentina. June 20 was National Flag Day and everyone displayed the flag in many forms. I even saw taxis drive by with signs displayed prominently in the rear window warning potential commuters that you would not be picked up if were not sporting National colors. Dia de la Bandera is the anniversary of the death of Miguel Belgrano, who created the current flag.

The kids each had "performances" at school. It was a great opportunity to experience the Argentine National pride. Teachers and parents also displayed pins and flags on their clothing and flying from their cars.




This is the Kindergarten. The 3's wore National Soccer Jerseys, the 4's wore panchos to represent the campo (traditional Argentine apparel) and the 5's wore fabric creating the pattern of the flag.

Our Blogging Vacation

A combination of pregnancy, moving, and waiting for Photoshop have kept us from blogging, in hopes of having more time later when I can I make up for my lack of natural photography skills. I still don't have Photoshop on our new computer, but I have decided that it has been far too long since I have kept up with my attempt to have a decent family journal. If I don't do it now, I will also have a new baby in the mix and yet another excuse for not posting. I will wait for Photoshop before I post our Mexican vacation photos, but here is everything since then...

Naming Our Angel

What is it about naming a baby that makes me so nervous and frustrated? I want her to have the perfect name and one that will fit her personality. Scientists have been debating for years as to whether or not it is the person that defines the name of the name that defines the person. Study after study has been conducted and many conclude that your name determines success.

What is a mom to do? There is so little time left and we just can't seem to find a perfect name that we can agree on. And the worst part is that you'd think this wouldn't be as difficult because we have previous experience, but it just seems to makes it more complicated.

Please, oh please, I pray that we settle on one sooner than later....

Our Newest Blazer Dancer

"A packed Wonder Ballroom was the setting for the final round of auditions to determine which 16 ladies would grace the Rose Garden floor as BlazersDancers during the 2008-2009 NBA season. The 32 finalists shook, spun and jumped their hearts out in front of panel of eight judges and hundreds of fans in hopes of earning a spot on one of the best dance teams in the NBA. Eleven BlazerDancers from last season participated in the tryouts, as no spaces on the team are reserved for former members. They did, however, get a bye into the finals.

Comcast was also on hand to record the auditions for a reality TV show set to air later this year, adding to the excitement for both the dancers and their fans.

After three rounds of cuts two weeks prior and interviews with Trail Blazers front office staff, the final 32 dancers were put through a grueling four routine final, testing their ability to perform various styles of dance, both in a group and as individuals. Finalists danced to Satisfaction, Beyonce's "This One Thing", Solo's Hot Time Out and Twilight Zone. Along with the provided routines, each dancer had to create their own solo routine.

One routine, set to Benny Benassi’s “Satisfaction,” tested the dancer’s ability to share the stage with up to two other performers. The most frenetic and technical of the two team choreographed routines, each dancer had to be watchful of the other dancers on the stage while executing a wide array of athletic moves ranging from contemporary to hip-hop.

Another routine, solos choreographed by the dancers themselves, allowed each contestant to display their creativity through the dance itself and their costume. Most of the finalists chose a routine befitting the kind of performance typical during a timeout at a Trail Blazers game, though some dancers chose to display their skills by performing more artistic and adventurous dances.

The finalists rejoined their previous groups for the last dance, a typical BlazerDancer pom-pom timeout routine common during the later stages of a game at the Rose Garden. Along with performing a set routine, each dancer had to freestyle for two eight-count measures, testing their ability to play to the crowd while falling back into place in time to sync up with their fellow dancers. The former BlazersDancers, already having the benefit of previously going through the tryout, looked particularly comfortable performing a routine they had already perfected during the 2007-2008 season.

After a brief break, the judges conversed among themselves, eventually asking for 16 of the dancers to perform the “Satisfaction” routine again. Those dancers were scored one more time before the judges were comfortable with turning in their scores.'

Taken from www.nba.com

Our Anniversary

When we were first married and for the 3 years that followed, we studied for finals together, stayed up late playing games and talking all summer long, made crazy trips home (22 hours) without sleeping longer than our car would stay warm at a truck stop, dreamed of all of the things that we would one day be able to accomplish, and managed a checkbook that rarely went over a few thousands dollars (and only after a long summer) and sometimes managed to carry no more than few cents. I cheered from the sidelines for years as Steve pursued the coveted sac from the defensive line. It put us through college. All the while, with special permission, I took more credits each semester than normally permitted in order to graduate in three and half years so that we would finish together.

Now, 8 years later, these are but faint memories as we live on the other side of the world raising two children and preparing for a third in a few short weeks. We are living the life that we so often dreamed of and discussed. We are where we have always wanted to be at this stage in our life. Traveling, making a difference, and raising happy, healthy children, while still enjoying staying up too late together.

Steve, thank you for a wonderful 8 years filled with lots of love, laughter, and growth. Thank you for working so hard for your family and for your country. I love you.

Moving Day Has Arrived

I can stop holding my breath now because my house is filled with boxes and packing paper! We really are moving.

As a note: The same guys are here to pack the boxes as those who delivered our boxes and car 8 months ago. Immediately, when I started explaining to them what would go first and what was staying, they stopped and looked at me as they commented on my vastly improved spanish and expanded vocabulary. I have to admit that it is still rather pathetic, it is just that I can get my point across now. Who knows if I will ever really be able to conjugate anything properly... Poco y poco.

After 8 months...

...in temporary housing, we are MOVING!!!

On Saturday, Steve and I moved and assembled the kids bunkbeds.

The surveyor just inventoried our belongings and determined how much time it will take them to move us. We are moving on Thursday, Friday and Saturday.

We will just keep praying. We can't believe anything until we see it! There is actually a possibility that I might get the house together before the baby arrives. WooHoo!!!

A Lasting Impression

Me: Did you have fun in Mexico?
P: You know it... Uncle Bic get big owies on his showders. On dis one and dis showders. (As she points to each one)
Me: Oh, was it red?
P: No, it was white.
Me: Did you give it a kiss to make it feel better?
P: No, Shelly do it. He trying to cleaning it already. He getting a napkin for it.
Me: Did he clean it to make it feel better?
P: No, he not clean it. It bad.
Me: How did he hurt his shoulders?
P: I don't know. (pause) From the sun. It was sunburned.
Me: Why did the sun hurt him?
P: He just playing on the beach one time.
Me: Is Uncle Vic so fun?
P: "He says, 'Hi P'" (In almost identical intonation in her voice)
Me: Did you play with Uncle Vic in the pool?
P: No. I sit on his lap. (pause) I sit on Shelly's lap. I want to sit on her lap one time and Uncle Bic's lap too, k? He is wearing his own hat. I just sit in da middle.
Me: Did Uncle Vic take you down the water slide?
P: Yeah, he pushed me.
Me; Did you have fun?
Me: Yeah, you go down the slide with him too, k? And Abe too. And Daddy too, k?


From sand castles to Wii... thanks Uncle Vic and Aunt Shelly for making such a lasting impression on my children and going out of your way to spend time with them. Vic, I am sorry that you had to suffer the consequences of the most lasting impression of them all...

In 100 Days...

I will fall in love again with a beautiful, innocent, perfect angel sent from heaven.

La Plata - Day Two

After a traditional Argentine breakfast of medialunas, juice and drinkable yogurt, we headed to the Natural History Museum and Paseo del Bosque (the Forest Promenade) and the Magical Caves. It was so cold that the kids didn't last long in the Forest Promenade before heading to see the wide array of dinosaur skeletons that the Natural History Museum had to offer. They were both highly anticipating the Saber-Toothed Tigers that they knew were waiting for them at the entrance. Peyton hasn't quite determined the difference between statue and reality (which we discovered in Puerto Vallarta), so it took a bit of coaxing to get her to sit within inches of the "guards at the gate".

We look forward to going back when it warms up! Brrr... we are cold!

La Plata - Day One

For Father's Day, (which happened to fall on an Argentine holiday weekend), we headed to La Plata. La Plata is a city of 550,000 people about an hour south of Buenos Aires. It was a planned city which is home to a large number of Federal Government offices. Besides the government work, the city relies on tourism.

Here is the hotel that we stayed in. I do NOT recommend staying here. The lobby is nice, but the rooms were in desperate need of renovation, which might be an understatement. However in front of the hotel, in yet another small park, there was a small children's carousel. Although it was absolutely freezing, as evidenced by the photo of Peyton on the horse, they rode it over and over and over.




After our time on the carousel, we headed to see the Cathedral and City Hall, which large located on the opposites end of a large plaza..In the plaza, there is a small trains than circle the outer perimeter. There are many vendors selling bubbles and other knick knacks, as well as mini toddler go carts for rent.

Airline Fees

I just stumbled on a small article about airline fees. A friend had mentioned that American Airlines has instituted a new charge for your first bag of $15, as well as a second bag for $25. I was surprised by this new cost-saving strategy by the airline, considering that there are few trips (with or without children) that can be made without luggage. I suppose that is the point. 150 seats times $15 is about the equivalent as adding 8-10 more payed passengers to each flight without the overhead.

However, I was taken back a little by the following article. We all knew that it was a matter of time, but now it looks as though they (at least US Airways and Spirit Air, for now) are going to charge us $2 for soft drinks, juice and water. Maybe this means that they will be more willing to relinquish the entire can, I mean we did pay for it. Some additional fees seem reasonable, considering that not everyone uses all of the services, however this seems unfair considering that you can not bring liquids through security. We are usually well stocked with snacks, knowing that food service is limited and that we are traveling with toddlers. We have the opportunity to pack lunch outside of the ridiculously over-priced terminal.

Other fees include: Seat assignment (no, not class preference - we all know that we pay too much for this upgrade), lap infants, headphones, "comfort kits" for a pillow and blanket, snack boxes and over-the-phone booking.

So here is my question... Would you rather pay the additional "amenity" charges for each flight or have the fees bundled into the fare?

P.S. We will be posting our Mexico photos soon...

Nighttime Rituals

Each night, the kids go to bed in their own beds in their respective rooms. I spend time with each to help them get in the mood to fall asleep quickly. Once I leave, I often hear chatter between them as they call out to talk to the other. Then there is silence. I expect that they are each soundly sleeping alone and yet more than 50% of the time, I find them like this...


When I ask Abe why he is sleeping with Peyton or vice versa, he replies, "I just needed someone to cuddle."

Disclaimer: No, Peyton is not taller than Abe... yet.

Class of '08

Congratulations to our newest college graduate! My sister, Cristi, is one of the hardest working, talented people that I know. She is just as beautiful on the inside as she is on the out.

We are SO proud of you! You have many wonderful years ahead of you and we can't wait to see where life takes you.

Puerto Vallarta 2008

Biannually, all of the Barlows head to Mexico for a activity-packed week at Paradise Village in Puerto Vallarta. We played games, took pictures, swam with the dolphins (some of us even swam with sea lions), dove for candy beneath the pinatas, built a sand castle, spent hours on water slides, played more games, took more pictures, ate, laughed, danced and enjoyed spending quality time together as an extended family.

This year we totaled 21. We were 12 adults and 9 children, of whom the oldest is 7 with 3 more on the way. In our attempt to document the vacation, we managed to take hundreds (if not a thousand, literally) of pictures combined between families. We will continue to post our favorites throughout the week.